My dumbass sent from an exchange, last night, localmonero direct to the site which I never do but didn't read monopoly's user manual.

The 12 hours went and gone and of course the seller didn't receive anything so this moning I submitted a pic of the transaction and the transaction number which it asked for and it currently says:
This order is currently being manually verified.

Anyone know how long it takes? I did this about 7 hours ago.

Is the money lost? Do I get a refund or does the order eventually go through?